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What TV Couple Are You?

September 11, 2014 by Ashleigh Slater
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Several months ago, I took an informal poll on Facebook. I asked my friends and family, “Who’s your favorite television couple and why?”

I got lots of answers.

The fictional couple who racked up the most votes? Cliff and Claire Huxtable from The Cosby Show. They came in #1 by a landslide.

I don’t know about you, but I think it’s fun to recognize how my husband Ted and I are like certain television characters. While, yes, God has an individual plan for each of our marriages and doesn’t want us to strive to have someone else’s relationship or spend our lives comparing, I strongly believe stories can teach us. And isn’t that what television shows are? A weekly chapter of a book, as it were. Well, unless you’re binge-watching reruns on Netflix and then it’s more like a daily chapter.

So when it comes to teamwork in marriage (ahem, the theme of my book Team Us), I thought it would be fun to look at some small-screen couples and analyze their teamwork. What do they teach us? The good? The bad? While I realize there are a ton of standout television couples, let me list just four and how they rate on the teamwork scale.

The Middle’s Frankie and Mike Heck

The Middle is one of my favorite shows currently on the air. Oh, and already in syndication too. Ted and I even own three seasons on DVD. So how do Frank and Mike Heck rate when it comes to teamwork?

The truth is, these Indiana natives’ polar opposite personalities often frustrate their efforts at teamwork. While Frankie cares passionately about everything, Mike isn’t riled up too easily. As a result, they find themselves struggling to find an emotional balance in their relationship. Despite their strong personality differences, they have a deep commitment to each other and to making their marriage work. They live by the motto “When the going gets tough, the tough team up!” Frankie and Mike both know the other has their back … no matter what.

I Love Lucy’s Ricky and Lucy Ricardo

I grew up on I Love Lucy. While I had trouble watching Ricky and Lucy for a while after I got married (you can read the full story of that in Team Us), I can now laugh at their antics. I just don’t emulate them in my marriage. In fact, in many ways, they may be an example of what not to do when it comes to teamwork.

You see, when it comes to team effort, this onscreen 1950’s couple has some rehearsing to do. (And note, we’re not talking about their off-screen tragic marriage. That’s a separate issue.) While their love for each other is strong, their individual ambition often gets in the way of their unity. This results in conflict. The positive thing is they’re both quick to forgive and forget. In the end, they are committed to sticking together no matter what zany adventures they find themselves in.

The Cosby Show’s Cliff and Claire Huxtable

I grew up on The Cosby Show and there’s a reason this couple was highest rated in my informal poll. It’s because if teamwork had a poster couple, Cliff and Claire would be it. Hands down.

Yep, when it comes to this power pair, both are calm and level-headed. They’re able to deal with whatever comes their way in a true “us vs. problem” fashion … and laugh about it along the way. And laughing together is something that goes far.

Downton Abbey’s Matthew and Mary Crawley

Matthew and Mary may be a couple with whom you’re not as familiar. I’ve found that many of my friends and family don’t know this BBC aristocrat pair who almost never made it to the altar.

How does their teamwork stack up? Well, Matthew and Mary normally have different ways of initially approaching a problem. Which can be a problem in itself. But with some time and work, they’re eventually able to find common ground and compromise. And once they do? They’re each other’s biggest supporters.

When it comes to teamwork in marriage, which of these TV couples are Ted and I most like? Well, sometimes we’re a bit like Matthew and Mary. Most of the time, though, we tend to be a toned down version of Frankie and Mike Heck’s polar personalities. And, just like them, we have each other’s back … no matter what.

How about you? Want to know which of these couples you and your husband are most like? If so, you can take my fun quiz, “What Television Couple Are You and Your Love Most Like?” here. After you do, be sure to come back and share your results with me.

Who knows? You might just discover that you’re one “heck” of a couple too.

Ashleigh Slater

 

Ashleigh SlaterAshleigh Slater is the author of the book, Team Us: Marriage Together (Moody Publishers, June 2014). As the founder and editor of the webzine Ungrind and a regular contributor at several popular blogs and websites, she unites the power of a good story with biblical truth and practical application to encourage couples. She has almost 20 years of writing experience and a master’s degree in communication. Ashleigh and her husband, Ted, have been married for more than a decade. They have four daughters and reside in Atlanta, Georgia. To learn more, visit AshleighSlater.com.

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10 thoughts on “What TV Couple Are You?

  1. both my husband and I took it separately and we both came up with Matthew & Mary. whew! good to know we both see it the same!! fun quiz!

  2. We are the Hecks! What a hoot! We have been married 42 years and can finish each others sentences–really scary sometimes. BUT, we are committed to making it work! My husband has walked with me during my journey with breast cancer. We are now walking through his journey with job stress and instability. Without Christ at the center of our marriage, it would have been over long ago! Knowing Christ and our commitment to the marriage is what keeps us together! I love this man so very much–can’t image life without him!

  3. I haven’t thought about I Love Lucy for a long time, but they were always fun to watch. I agree that they were quick to forgive and that is a great model, especially since the things being forgiven were usually pretty … zany? More ridiculous than the things my husband and I face!

    Thanks for the fun post.

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