Just a heads up before we get into day 5. There won’t be any Marriage Vows on Saturday or Sunday. We’ll be continuing with day 6 on Monday and so on. Hope that’s okay with y’all!!
Just over the Christmas holidays I got a letter from a reader who asked me a question about a quote that I have in my book, The Good Wife’s Guide. The quote reads like this:
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit.
Rather, in humility value others above yourselves,
not looking to your own interests but each of you
to the interests of the others.
Communication isn’t a game and it’s not about winning or losing. After all shouldn’t we both be on the same team?
I tend to be the strong silent type. *sigh.* But I’m getting a lot better over the years.
The person who values the other higher than himself is willing to let go of the anger, gracefully drop out of a fight and bring it to God in prayer. Stepping back (by trying to diffuse an argument in kindness and with love) and leaving it in the hands of the Lord is taking a high road and should never be deemed as taking “loser’s seat.”
Finally at the end of the day, when all is said and done, he gets the deciding vote. Why? We’ll talk more about that one on Monday!
Today’s Vow: To Give Up My Need to Be Right
The Challenge: Let your voice be heard, but put down any weapons of warfare. Practice holding your tongue when you’re angry and carrying your burdens to prayer.
You are loved by an almighty God,
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