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It’s not just a guess—women really do tend to care about what others think. Studies show that nearly nine out of ten women compare themselves to others on social media. Whether it’s our appearance, our homes, our parenting, or our marriages, we often find ourselves looking over the fence, wondering how we measure up.

And it’s not just grown women who feel that pressure. Teen girls feel it too. A 2018 survey by Common Sense Media found that almost half of girls ages 13 to 17 said getting likes on their posts mattered to them, and more than a quarter admitted they feel bad if no one responds to their photos.

And that’s just online.

Off-screen, many of us carry a quiet pressure to explain ourselves, to be understood, or to fix how others see us. Maybe that’s why gossip cuts so deep. Maybe that’s why criticism keeps us up at night, replaying conversations in our heads. We get so caught up looking around, we forget to look up.

But here’s the truth—our value was never meant to be determined by others, but by who God says we are.

Fully known. Deeply loved. Held by grace.

Maybe that’s why Nehemiah chapter 6 matters so much. It gives us something to learn from, something to grow through, and a reminder that looking up is far more life-giving than looking around. 

Nehemiah didn’t chase after approval. He didn’t run around putting out fires or trying to defend his reputation. He knew the work God gave him to do, and he stayed focused.

The enemy tried to pull him down—literally and figuratively. They sent message after message, hoping to wear him down and pull him away from his calling. But Nehemiah stood firm and simply replied, “I am doing a great work, and I cannot come down” (Nehemiah 6:3).

That kind of clarity is rare. Nehemiah didn’t explain himself. He didn’t try to win them over. He just kept going. And that’s a powerful example for us. How often do we step away from what God has called us to, just to fix a misunderstanding or ease someone’s disappointment?

Nehemiah’s response gives us the clarity we all need:

You don’t have to come down.
Not every voice deserves your energy.
Not every opinion needs a response.
Not every battle is yours to fight. 

When you know who you are—and what God has called you to do—you can stay the course, even when others don’t understand.

Week at a Glance 

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A Note About Journaling
As you move through this study, consider keeping a personal journal nearby. It doesn’t have to be fancy—just a simple notebook where you can jot down your prayers, reflections, and anything the Lord impresses on your heart. This is your space to write freely, revisit lessons, and record your own journey of restoration.

TUESDAY

Visit TWW – Visit timewarpwife.com to read the weekly intro and find the link to this week’s video.

Read Nehemiah 6:1–9 – Watch how the enemy uses distraction and pressure to try and pull Nehemiah off the wall.

Study Guide – Begin reading Chapter 6 in the guide and reflect on the enemy’s persistence and Nehemiah’s strong response: “I cannot come down.”

WEDNESDAY

Scripture Focus – Read Judges 16:6–16, Genesis 39:7–12, and 1 Samuel 1:6–7.

Journaling Prompt – How did Samson, Joseph, and Hannah each react to repeated pressure? What does this teach you about resisting temptation?

Community Post – Share with the group: What’s one distraction you’ve faced lately, and how are you standing firm?

THURSDAY

Read Nehemiah 6:10–14 – Nehemiah uses discernment when faced with spiritual-sounding advice.

Study Reflection – Hebrews 5:14 talks about training ourselves to distinguish good from evil. What are some daily habits that help you grow stronger in this area?

Journaling Prompt – What might it look like for you to say, “I will not go,” when temptation calls?

FRIDAY

Visit TWW – Visit timewarpwife.com to read Darlene’s closing thoughts for the week.

Read Nehemiah 6:15–19 – Nehemiah finishes the wall despite betrayal and opposition.

Group Reflection – Has God called you to respond differently to someone who hurt you?

SATURDAY

Heart Search – Ask God to show you any “open doors” in your life that the enemy might be using.

Proverbs 4:23–27 (AMP) – Write out five instructions for guarding your heart and walking in truth.

Journaling Prompt – What stood out to you this week about spiritual resistance or discernment?

SUNDAY – No assignments today. Let today be a day of spiritual renewal.

MONDAY

Reflection – What truth from Nehemiah 6 encouraged or challenged you most this week?

Final Community Post – Share one insight with the group as we prepare to step into Chapter 7.

This Week’s Challenge

This week, when you feel tempted to defend yourself, get pulled into drama, or react out of emotion, pause instead. Take a deep breath, pray, and remind yourself: “I am doing a great work, and I cannot come down.” Write this verse somewhere visible as a reminder to stay focused on what God has called you to do.

This Week’s Bible Verse

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